Blog Tour: Making Work at Home Work by Mary Byers
Thanks to LitFuse Publicity for providing a free review copy of this book. No other compensation was received for this review. The opinions contained herein are my own. I was not required to write a positive review.
*Giveaway post - details at end!*
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Before even I start my review, let me just tell you that this book couldn't have come at a better time for me. I have been drowning under my load of responsibility (personal and business), and I hadn't been doing anything well. Then I was offered a chance to review Making Work at Home Work, and I instantly accepted. Boy, amd I glad I did!
Making Work at Home Work shows moms how to develop an entrepreneurial mind-set without sacrificing their families. It covers important topics such as developing a successful business philosophy, balancing time between work and family, setting realistic goals, and handling the challenges of being both "Mommy" and "CEO" while running a profitable home-based business.
As a WAHM, let me tell you that I know first-hand how difficult that is! I found myself reflected in nearly all of the following assessment questions from the book:
- Do I feel overwhelmed? (um, yeah...)
- Am I trying to do too much? (waaaaay too much)
- Are my work commitments forcing me to make sacrifices that are hurting my role as a mom? (Hm, let's see - no school for days on end, kids making their own lunches, etc. - check)
- Am I often overly optimistic about how much I can accomplish in a day or week? (I'm the queen of false optimism)
- Do those around me seem stressed or out of sorts because of my workload? (Yes - everyone in the house, including me, hates how much I work)
- What would happen if I tried to space out my work more evenly? (Not a clue.)
- Would I lose business if I were more realistic about my deadlines? And if so, would it matter?
- Am I working at a pace I can sustain over the long haul? (no) If not, how can I get to that point?
I'll share with you a couple of areas that Making Work at Home Work has already helped me to improve.
- I now acknowledge that I am a WAHM, not a SAHM. This has been a critical step to freeing myself from unrealistic expectations I and others have placed on my shoulders. Because I am a WAHM, I have client demands in addition to the demands of my family. By acknowledging that fact, I can enlist my family's help during the times when I have to focus more on my clients. This also gives me permission not to take on additional outside responsibilities and commitments. When I acknowledge the time I need to take care of my family and run my business, I can see that I simply don't have time for a lot of "extracurricular" activities.
- I finally sat down with Mr. Incredible to discuss with him how he would like me to handle being both a mom and an entrepreneur. We went through Mary's helpful list of questions to discuss with your spouse, a few of which follow:
- Are you willing to support me as I work from home?
- What's realistic in terms of how much I work?
- What kind of limitations should we put in place to keep things balanced?
- Being Honest
- Why Are You Working?
- How Much Is Enough?
- "I Can't Work in These Conditions!"
- Guilt
- The Parental PAct
- Child Care Strategies for Every Season of Your Work-at-Home Life
- Systematizing Your Business for Maximum Effectiveness
- Refreshment
- Facing the Daily Dinner Dilemma
- Relying on Faith to Get You Through
- Accepting the At-Home-CEO Mantle
- Professional (and Other) Advice
- The Tax Man Comes
- The Right Equipment
- Subcontracting
- Boosting Your Revenue
- One-Page Planning
- Rainy Days and Reinvesting
- Retirement Planning
- Giving Yourself Permission to Make Your Business a Reflection of You
Blog Tour Contest at Mary's site:
You have another chance to win a copy of Making Work at Home Work (or another one of Mary’s books--your choice) AND a $25 Amazon gift certificate (for some WAHM essentials – Day Planner, bubble bath, funky file-folders, toddler DVDs)!
There are three ways to win:
- Leave a comment on the blog tour post.
- Sign up for Mary’s quarterly newsletter where she offer tips and advice about all facets of a women's life: WAHM, mothering, women's issues. More info here!
- Join the Work at Home Blog Ring. More info here.
About Mary:
Mary M. Byers successfully juggles both a freelance corporate writing and speaking business and her responsibilities as a wife and mother of two school-aged children. She is the author of The Mother Load: How to Meet Your Own Needs While Caring for Your Family and How to Say No . . . And Live to Tell about It. To learn more, visit her website or her blog.
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